flip side of hope

More than a year ago I wrote about an event that left a mark on me, and made me hope. The mark disappeared all too quickly and without even a whimper. The hope turned out to be ill-placed. Unlike its companion at the inception however, the hope never quite completely left me, though it faded just the same -- I hoped for smaller, for different, and eventually, I hoped for it less often.

Now my small, changed, and forgotten hopes have morphed their way into reality, better than if I had orchestrated it from the seats of the gods. I think I played it perfectly this time, armed with clarity that wasn't there the first time around. Sickeningly, this clean feeling disturbs me. Like a patient who's been informed of a lack of diagnosis but can't quite take the good news and go home. I keep feeling like I should be harvesting more significance from this second coming, and I can't tell if it's from a fear of having missed something, or a secret celebration of murky, useless melodrama. Or maybe this is simply the feeling that accompanies all existential crises--not at the end of failures but at the end of successes--the unremarkable-ness of our world after we get our hearts' desires, the confusion over why our lives must continue the same way it has been going, that what happened when the stars and luck aligned in our favor has only (and always) been just a moment in time.

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